1. Exercise, Workout as often as possible. Spend time outdoors… it’s a good balance to life in the city. Take a walk in a city park, take a drive in the country or plan a relaxing weekend getaway in the mountains or at the beach. Turn the cellular phone off and enjoy the serenity. Breathe deeply and, for a few minutes, let go of all your worries. Exercising and re-energizing yourself by doing something completely different will help you feel better.
2. Eat well
If you find that you’ve developed a habit of drinking or eating foods with no nutritional value, commit to eating healthier, organic foods. If you’re not making the time to eat regular, balanced meals, it’s time to re-prioritize. It’s not always necessary to make major lifestyle changes; even minor adjustments can improve your health and well-being.
3. Allocate your time properly
Delegating and multi-tasking are key components to getting your life on track. Have you heard the expression that “we spend 80% of our time on tasks that get us only 20% of our results.” Say “no” to useless tasks that get you nowhere. Prioritize your work assignments and leisure activities. Perfect your time management skills and your life will become more balanced.
4. Focus on yourself (make time for yourself)
Create opportunities for relaxation and pleasure. For example, find something that classifies as ‘me-time’ like getting your nails done, going out with the girls for coffee, gardening, evening walks, and the list goes on… Take a break when you need one. Plan a vacation when you feel you need to refresh yourself. Just the act of researching and thinking about it will recharge your batteries and offset the stressors in your life.
5. Be creative
Find a new hobby that will enhance your creativity. Try your hand at drawing, painting, stamping, writing or photography. You may be surprised at how relaxing it can be.
6. Make contact with people you care about
Create opportunities to connect with people you care about. Call, send e-mail or visit. Send cards, clippings or photos or write letters, if that’s something you find relaxing. The continuity of past, present and future will help you feel grounded and balanced. I personally make it a goal to call my closest friends once a month, and my family once a week.
7. Meet people
A gym is the perfect place to meet new and amazing people! It’s important to socialize. Spending so much time working that you have no energy for other pursuits is not beneficial. To keep your work and personal life balanced, you need to meet new people, and exercise your wit, wisdom and social skills.
8. Plan a date
Schedule a weekly date with your significant other. For instance, I have date night with my wife every Thursday night at 7:00pm sharp…no exceptions!!! Call your partner from work early in the week to plan that Thursday evening dinner out together, and the anticipation will add a spark to your relationship.
9. Make plans
Avoid working late and watching T.V. Make plans to get out of the house and enjoy what life has to offer. Whether you plan to go out for a walk with friend or loved one, work out at a gym, or volunteer at a local shelter; making plans allows you to shift emotional and mental gears.
10. Listen to your body
If you feel ill or tired, do something about it. You’re not doing anyone any good by turning up at work grumpy and with low energy. If you feel exhausted or are suffering from insomnia, remember that stress can manifest itself in physical symptoms. If stress is the culprit, working out is the best way to burn it off!
11. Develop your support system
Remember, your family is your number one support team. Also, have a Curves “go-to” friend or staff member, and/or a best friend you can talk to who will not judge or criticize. In regards to your career, find a mentor to help guide you to your ultimate career goal. Celebrate your successes and you may find your life is more balanced than you thought.
Many of us are workaholics and need to find the right balance of work and personal obligations. Just a few small changes may be enough to make you feel more in control of your life, more relaxed and more fulfilled. For the good of your physical, mental and emotional health, assess all your needs and prioritize what’s important to you. The benefits of achieving balance in your life will be well worth it. In an ideal world you would be fully invested (mentally and physically) in all areas of your life and your diagram would resemble the outer circle. In reality it is more likely that your circle will be leaning towards one (or maybe two) spokes and work is dominating. Remember, we all must have some stress in our lives but the key to happiness is to strive for balance. A balanced life consists of work time, family time, relaxation time, hobbies, and exercise. You can make it your reality…one step at a time.